Oops50: Sadhvi Sez: Remembering the Monkees

I was one with Elvis when I was about 8 or 9. It was in a dream, and boy, did it feel real. Not the sexually acrobatic kind of oneness, no, it was a true melting of souls. I can still remember how delicious it felt to merge with a human being. It was so good, and truly, I don’t even think I knew who Elvis really was. I do remember my Mom listening to Jerry Vale and Peggy Lee a lot, and my Dad liked Elvis, but I didn’t realize what a phenomenon he was back then. I must have been picking it up via the collective consciousness.

But then again, I also had dreams of being dissolved with God, you know, the Almighty. I guess you could say that I have a bit of the devotee in me, and secretly long to become one with the Universe. Still. Or maybe it was just part of the Path of merging and melting which would eventually lead me to find my Guru.

What brought all this on? Well, hearing that Davy Jones, one of the Monkees, passed away this week, made me take a little trip back in time, remembering their music, which I really liked. I don’t want to say “loved”, since it wasn’t really used then like it is now – the word, love, I mean. You know, these days, it’s like: I love my iPhone, I love my iPad, I love so-and-so’s chocolate cupcakes, etc. It’s interesting to think back to the way people talked, and instead of saying how much you loved everything that you liked, or how awesome everything is that you think is neat, you kind of just kept it to yourself and savored it.

Anyways, even though I wasn’t in love with Davy, his death made me remember how much I really liked their music. In fact, I had all of their albums, played them over and over again, and knew all the words to all of their songs. I watched them every week for many years on TV, probably not missing an episode. So for what it’s worth, I wanted to share my favorite song from the Monkees.  RIP Davy Jones.

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Sadhvi's trying to find the balance in life over 50 without having any surgery, taking any pills, or killing anyone. She doesn't want to look or feel the way she felt when she was 20 or 30. Trusting that everything is really OK unless you think about it helps her make it through each day. Also realizing that nothing can be done, and, that nothing matters really helps. Gardening (and weeding), poppies and flowers, painting on things, baking, and sharing on Oops50 helps to make it all right too.

6 thoughts on “Oops50: Sadhvi Sez: Remembering the Monkees

  1. Thanks for your memories of Davy and The Monkees. I loved (yes, loved!) all of the songs on which Davy sang lead. My two favorites are “A little bit me, a little bit you,” and “I wanna be free.” Davy will always hold a special place in my heart.

  2. I felt the same way, Sadhvi–in fact, I was going to write about it! But my favorite was “Daydream Believer.” Thanks for writing about cute Davy Jones!

  3. I loved them, too, Marie. In fact, The Monkees was the very concert I saw in Cleveland, and I screamed my head off. Loved it.

  4. Sadhvi,

    I, too, am sad and reminiscent with the passing of Davy Jones. I took my daughter to see him last summer in concert with Peter Noone – she’s 40, knows their music because I always played it … was the first time she saw him perform – she was glad to have seen him at least once. He and Peter are both so self deprecating and full of humor – I will miss him, he was a part of my growing up.

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