Here at Oops50, we received notification from the Oprah Winfrey show (yes, we are on her people’s radar!!!) that they are going to do a show on the subject of women feeling “invisible” with age. They wanted us to tell our “Beautiful Women over 50″ readers, in case someone feels this subject speaks directly to her and would like to go on television to talk about it. The application process involves writing your story (2000 words or less) and uploading your picture. Here’s the description from their website posting:
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Friday, August 13th, 2010Aging Gracefully: Miz Rize Cole, Poet
Friday, July 30th, 2010
Staying in my Lane
I often hear the words “Be you for you.”
I chose to internalize this by taking full responsibility.
I WILL BE ME FOR ME.
We are constantly focusing on the exterior, “what will they think and what will they say?”. What matters to me is what I think and what I say. What I am thinking is a powerful clue as to what is in my consciousness . When we are looking at the exterior, are we neglecting the interior and what is resonating within?
As an elder, I have come to the realization that this is my journey and I can take the fast or scenic route, whichever suits me.
Being an elder can be awesome if you are mentally, physically and spiritually healthy. For some of us, it is the first time we can stand in our truth, think of self first and be impeccable. I am aware many elders are still stuck in the past, living with regrets and should have’s, but for most of us it is a joyful time to do our own thing. I have no concerns about the opinions of others. What am I supposed to do with what someone thinks of me? I can observe…they are thinking, but they are in my lane and need to get back in their lane and MTOB (mind their own business).
I may also choose to have fun with them. One of my favorite ways to walk in the world is by tooting my horn when someone makes a decision to get into my lane. This may look like a tilt of my head and a gentle smile, or I may change lanes by changing the subject. If they are bold or rude enough to follow me into my new lane, I might let them have it with both barrels, which may sound like a giant laugh and a hug or I may just say something like, “ Oh… listen to that beautiful bird singing” or “Oh… I do love your hat” and continue talking about my love of hats, birds or whatever until they get back into their lane or forget what they had asked me in the first place.
Results: My blood pressure is ok and their feelings are intact.
77 year old poet Rize Cole currently lives in West Columbia, South Carolina.
Rize enjoys traveling, reading, cooking and whatever makes her happy!
You can contact her at mizrize77@yahoo.com
Joan Rivers: “A Piece of Work”
Saturday, July 24th, 2010When Charlie Rose interviews someone, I watch and listen. I guess that makes me a Charlie Rose groupie (I rely on Tivo to get my fill). So, when he interviews Joan Rivers about the documentary, “A Piece of Work,” I go see it. The film, by Ricki Stern and Annie Sundberg, spans the 40 year career of Ms. Rivers. At 77 (she’s actually 75 in the film), we see a tough broad who is not afraid to bare all. In fact, she thrives on it, needs it, like an addict.
Watch this great trailer:
I’m not exactly sure when I stopped liking Joan Rivers, but I’m guessing it was back in the late 80s with everyone else. Falling from grace due to a series of professional and personal blows such as being blacklisted by Johnny Carson/NBC, and the 1987 suicide of her husband/manager, she struggled to find work in her beloved show biz.
Circumstances and age seemed to have turned Ms. Rivers into a comic whose jokes seemed more like cruel jabs aimed to hurt the likes of Liz Taylor and her battle with weight. I find it very ironic for Joan to be hassling Liz when she was perpetually under the knife of her plastic surgeon re-figuring her face, and who knows what else. I know it’s none of my business how many face lifts this Grande Dame of comedy endures but frankly, I think her face lifts turned me off when she started to look like a caricature of herself standing in Madame Tussaud’s Wax Museum.
Now, here’s the big BUT – after seeing this film, and her journey back to glitz and glamour, I actually like Joan Rivers again! She’s one smart woman who climbed her way back to legendary status selling her jewelry on QVC, and her red carpet attacks (with her daughter) on celebrity T.V. And don’t forget her latest gig on Donald Trump’s reality show “The Celebrity Apprentice.” No, I didn’t watch it but I was not surprised to learn that Ms. Rivers won the competition, which by the way, meant she had to beat out her own daughter, also on the show. Needless to say, the mother and daughter relationship is strained. Nothing new here abut mothers and daughters.
In spite of her obsession to be a star and stay on top of her game, I couldn’t help but admire Joan Rivers. Like I said before, she is one tough broad, and she’s not afraid to fight tooth and nail to keep her dream alive. Aging gracefully? Not her. Aging any way she can is more like it.
Want to Know the Latest Scoop on Bras?
Tuesday, June 1st, 2010Read The Wall Street Journal. I’m not kidding. I found the most fascinating article on bras there. Don’t know how many of you beautiful women over 50 read the WSJ, but I get it daily, and Christina Binkley’s May 13th article, “Bra Building: New Engineering for Bigger Curves” is a gem. Why would the WSJ feature almost a whole page on bras? Well, bras are big business–and getting bigger. It seems that bra sizes have gone up in the last decade, and D or DD sizes are not uncommon. In fact, manufacturers have been cranking up cup sizes to KK.
The article says baby boomers need a lift to support their sagging breasts–thus the need for the “engineered” bra. But I, for one, have been observing the young girls with bovine breasts who feel the need to bare beaucoup cleavage instead of hooking up a little more engineering than their mothers or grandmothers. I’m convinced it’s all the hormones in their burgers and chicken nuggets, not to mention the milk they drink that’s injected with rBGH to speed up production.
But never mind them, it’s all about me, and I’ve been looking for that perfect bra where the underwire doesn’t gouge my chest after two hours and doesn’t cost a week’s earnings. And bras aren’t cheap. It seems a good bra can cost up to $100. And why is that, you might ask? Because, what do you know, good bras have over 24 working parts, and all that engineering costs money! So if you have good information on a great bra at a great price, please come forward and share that information with us women over 50.
In the meantime, visit the WSJ video, where the journalist interviews a bra maker and seller – there’s a 12-second ad you’ll have to sit through first, but it’s worth it. And here’s the link for the article:http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703339304575240382280390218.html
Style: Update on Jane’s Red Shoes!
Thursday, May 13th, 2010I went to visit my friend Judi last week. After a hello and a hug, she started to tell me about this pair of shoes that she just bought. The way she was acting, it was as if she had fallen in love with someone. Great I said. After years of seeing cute shoes that only go up to size 10 or 11 and that I will never be able to wear because I am a size 11.5 – 12, I no longer feel any jealousy. Judi kept going on and on about these shoes that she just had to show me. Hmmm, I was having a litte deja-vu experience. Her excitement was the same as what Jane had when she wrote about falling in love with a pair of red Jambu shoes. It turns out that Judi’s shoes were the exact same ones! I must admit, my breath quickened a bit when I held these shoes in my own two hands. They had flowers embedded in lucite in the arch and they looked so good.!
Judi’s friend was there, and said she had just walked 14 miles in San Fransciso in hers, another model, the Jambu Planet and couldn’t believe how comfortable they were.
I started to walk out of the room slowly, which is my way of leaving a situation that I find uncomfortable. Judi said that I could get them in a men’s style…surely. Well, after googling them online, it turns out that they do not.
I guess I will always long to have a pair of beautiful comfortable shoes. So please, check these shoes out on my behalf. Really, go ahead. Get a pair and feel like you are in love. It will make me happy that you are happy with your cool and very comfortable shoes!













