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    Sadhvi Asks: Are You Ready?

    Saturday, May 11th, 2013

    Barbara Kingsolver photo by Annie Griffiths

    Last weekend it rained nonstoop for 3 days and 3 nights which amounted to about 5.5 inches of rain in our neck of the woods.  I know that doesn’t sound like much maybe, but believe me, it was.  And during that time, the sun never ever came out.  It felt appropriate that Barbara Kingsolver’s newest book, Flight Behavior, had just become available at the library; one that I’d been waiting for and was excited to read.  I really enjoy her books, and love getting lost in them, so it turns out that since there was nothing that I could do outside, I could disappear head first into it.

    The book is so good that I want you to go and put yourself on the waiting list at your library, or buy it at your local book store right now, and because I don’t want to spoil it for you by telling you anything about it, I will only tell you what the overall subject is.  Which won’t ruin the story that Kingsolver weaves through her characters, which makes her one of my favorite authors.  I read on her website that she reads the audio version, and I will get that just to hear her tell the story.

    So it’s about climate change.  Which no matter what you believe or don’t believe, or feel or don’t feel, is happening right now.  And since a few days ago, we have reached and gone beyond the tipping point of what the Earth can handle CO2-wise to keep the climate stable.  Which means feeling like it’s winter is the summer, feeling like it’s summer in the winter, and a lot of freakish storms.

    Which up until I read Flight Behavior, had me in a subtle state of a tizzy.  I mean, I’ve been noticing the weather/season changes for years, being a gardener and all.  If I wasn’t tuned in that way, I might not notice it.  But since moving to Asheville in 1998, our zone has gone from 6b to 7a.  Now those kinds of things don’t happen without the people who watch and know these kind of things noticing!

    So if you’ve been feeling a little anxious, or even a bit worried about the future, do take the time and read Flight Behavior.  It might make you feel better about the future.  After all, I don’t have children and don’t have that blind feeling that people who do seem to have that “everything is OK and everything will be all right”.

    So are you ready though, to embrace the change that will be taking place at an accelerated rate?  I mean, will you choose to freak out and keep repeating the latest extreme stories that are on the news?  Or argue that it’s not true – that there has always been unstable conditions called “the weather”.  Or will you start to go inside more and feel the stability of that?

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    Here is a quote from the book:

    “Entomologist Dr. Ovid Byron speaking to television journalist, Tina, who says, regarding global warming,

    “Scientists of course are in disagreement about whether this is happening and whether humans have a role.”
    He replies:
    “The Arctic is genuinely collapsing. Scientists used to call these things the canary in the mine. What they say now is, the canary is dead. We are at the top of Niagara Falls, Tina, in a canoe. There is an image for your viewers. We got here by drifting, but we cannot turn around for a lazy paddle back when you finally stop pissing around. We have arrived at the point of an audible roar. Does it strike you as a good time to debate the existence of the falls?” p.367

    I don’t think there is any need for fear, or for trying to protect myself from the reality of our world.  Or arguing that it is happening or not.  I kind of knew that this was going to happen, didn’t you deep down?

    And being the emotional type that feels everything, I know I will feel sad and cry about things I hear about on the news.  Which is why I will stay where I am in a place where there are more trees than people, and where flowers and birds make me happy.  And paint when I can and surround myself with those friends and family that I love and that love me.

    What about you?

    The First Iris of the Season

    * BTW: All coprights on everything, including my photos.

    A Book You Don’t Want To Miss: The Plum Tree by Ellen Marie Wiseman

    Sunday, April 28th, 2013

    Annice

    So many blogs for women over 50 post about fashion accessories, new hair products, anti-aging products, and diets.  While I’m not against any of those topics, I am so happy to post one of my favorite things on oops50.com – new books, especially books by new authors.  Today, I not only want to introduce you to a new book I’ve just read, The Plum Tree by Ellen Marie Wiseman,

    Ellen Marie Wiseman

    but share an interview I had with the author last week.

    The story takes place in a small German town in WWII where a  “young, working-class Christian German woman struggles to survive poverty, Allied bombs, and the wrath of the Gestapo while trying to save the love of her life, a Jewish man.”  That story line alone was enough for me to buy the book.  In fact, I devour anything that hints of the Holocaust which means I’m becoming more and more like my father who consumed mass quantities of books (fiction and non-fiction) that had anything to do with WWII and Hitler.  So many in our family perished in concentration camps, and those that survived were full of stories, and their stories definitely left a lasting impression on me as a child.

    Very quickly into the book, I was aware that this story was different, and for the first time, I was reading about the War, and not measuring who suffered more, Christians or Jews?  Moved by the power of the story, I searched for the author on FaceBook, friended her, and asked for an interview.  Graciously, Ellen accepted, and this is how it went:

    Oops50:  Why did you decide to write this story and is any of it biographical?

    Old Family Photo

     Ellen: I grew up visiting Germany because my mother’s family is there.  I grew up listening to stories of my mother’s childhood and my grandparent’s struggle to survive the war.  My grandfather was captured by the Russians, and even though he eventually escaped, my grandmother didn’t know for two years whether he was dead or alive, until he showed up on their doorstep one day.  And, like Christine’s grandfather in the book who was killed during an air raid, that happened to my great grandfather.  On one trip to Germany, I visited the bomb shelter where my family hid.  Also, like Christine’s mother, my grandmother put food out for the passing Jewish prisoners and listened to foreign radio broadcasts, both crimes punishable by death. 

    Oops50: At the center of your book is a love story between Christine, an average Christian girl who falls in love with Isaac, a young Jewish man from a wealthy family.  Is any of that part of your mother’s story?

    Ellen:  No.  While my mother and grandmother experienced lots of things, this was not their story.  I added a love story because I wanted to tell the Jewish story, too.  The story had been brewing in me for a long time.  In school, where I grew up in Three Mile Bay, NY, everyone knew I was German.  Kids even called me a Nazi.  At a certain point, I knew I wanted to tell the story of poor German families like my mother’s because I knew they suffered, but didn’t’ know how much.  There is a lot of collective guilt, and the Germans feel they can’t talk about how they suffered.  They feel they aren’t allowed to speak about what happened to them.  So, I wanted to be that voice and tell that story.

    Oops50:  How did your mother feel about you writing a book so close to her experiences?

    Ellen's Mother's Hometown

    Ellen:  My mother is amazing.  She’s always had a lot going on in her personal life.  My sister was in a car accident and remained in a vegetative state for 23 years just like Terry Schiavo, if you remember that case.  My mother took care of my sister at home all those years until she passed away in 2010.  She sees darkness and lightness in life, and she is more grateful for the life she has now.  So, over the years, I had heard pieces about her life, and when I got serious about writing the book, I gave my mother a questionnaire.  One memory would trigger another, then another, and it wasn’t until she’d read the whole book that she said, “holy cow – I survived that.”  At the time, she just didn’t think about her suffering.  Again, it goes back to the collective guilt.  I think Germany is still sorting all that out.

    Oops50: Your mother does sound amazing.  Was it depressing at times to do that kind of research?  Did it affect your psyche?

    Ellen:  Not really. If anything, it made me even more grateful for the many blessing I have in my life.

    Oops50:  Has there been any backlash from Jews for telling a story from the German experience?

    Ellen: Not at all.  All the feedback has been positive.  It’s been very encouraging.

    Oops50:  I’d like to talk a little about the process of writing the book.  How long did it take and did you do a lot of research?

    Ellen:  As I said, the idea had been brewing for a long time. I actually started writing the book in 2006, after my daughter graduated from High School.  It took me about four years to write.

    Oops50:  With the publishing industry in such turmoil, what was your publishing experience like?   Was it hard to find an agent?  Did you think about self-publishing?

    Ellen:  I thought about self-publishing but I really wanted to try the traditional route first.  I got 72 rejections from agents, but I just believed in my story and didn’t want to give up.  Then, after I sent out one more letter, I got picked up, and it didn’t take long for my agent to sell it.  And now, I’m working on my second book with the same publisher.

    Oops50: So is your next book historical fiction, too?

    Ellen:  No.  My second book is more contemporary.  I like historical fiction, and I was passionate about my story, but my publisher didn’t want me to be pigeonholed with another WWII book.

    Oops50:  Has the book been sold in Germany?

    Ellen:  No.  We’ve sold foreign rights in Italy, Spain and Sweden, but not yet in Germany.

    Oops50:  So now that you’ve published the book, are you enjoying the aftermath, any book tours?

    Ellen:  Yes. The publishers do a lot of behind the scenes promotions such as the blog tour on-line, sending out the book to lots of different places for review, but unless you’re a well known author, they don’t do more than that, and they don’t pay for book tours.

    Oops50:  Interesting.  And what about readings in your local book store?

    Ellen:  I live in a town with no book store.  I have to drive an hour to get to one.  But, I did have a signing at Sam’s and several of the local libraries.

    Oops50:  Sam’s Club?  That’s amazing.  I love that Sam’s has book signings in your town.  Is there anything else you’d like to say to our readers?

    Ellen:  Yes, please spread the word about “The Plum Tree”, and if you don’t mind writing reviews on Amazon, that would be wonderful!

    Oops50:  Ellen, thank you so much for spending time with me and agreeing to an interview.  And, I’m looking forward to your next book.

    Ellen:Thank you so much for having me!

     

     

     

    Just Holler Bloody Murder by Dershie McDevitt

    Wednesday, March 6th, 2013

    Jane

    I don’t often get the chance to review a book–because I don’t often get the chance to read!  But today I am excited to write about Dershie McDevitt’s wonderful “cozy,” entitled Just Holler Bloody Murder.  A “cozy,” for those of you who, like me, have not heard that term before, is basically a beach read– in this case, a mystery with no graphic, horrible details but with a love story thrown in for fun! Before I get started, let me just tell you that this is Dershie’s first published novel, and Dershie is 70 years old, so, Dershie,  Oops50 salutes you!!!

    Dershie McDevitt

    This fun and suspenseful book, set on ‘Timicau Island (modeled on Dewees in South Carolina), begins with a woman’s return to the beach house where she was raised by her single mother.  Hoping  to find some peace and come to terms with her mother’s recent death, the protagonist, Callahan Banks, finds her vision of tranquility shattered by two murders, with the possibility of other murders looming on her beloved island.

    Here is what I love about this book:

    1) It is full of interesting, intelligent characters, especially Callahan, who has a wealth of knowledge about the natural world and a tough, take-no-prisoners approach to life, to the suave Southern-gentleman, Pepper Dade, who may or may not have played a part in the murders, to the brilliant child prodigy, Harry Applegate, who teaches her a thing or two about how to protect yourself in the face of danger.  I might even include the island itself in this list, since it plays such an important role, not just as a fascinating setting for the book but as an active participant in the story.  And, let’s not exclude  another captivating character,  Albert the alligator, who resides on the inland pond right below Callahan’s house.  The suspense will grip you right until the end, when the pieces fall into place, and you are not entirely sure that our main character is going to survive because you have no clear idea where the most danger lies.

    2) It combines murder and romance, which is a fun combination for an enjoyable read.

    3) The writing is excellent.  Lots of people can write a story that combines murder and romance.  Very few can carry it off with as much aplomb as Dersie McDevitt does.  Here’s an example:  “Still, she has the unnerving impression that she may be like a lab frog dumbly languishing in a pot of cool water over a low flame, while someone–she doesn’t know who–patiently waits for the water to heat up and begin to boil.”  Or this description by Callahan of Pepper Dade’s effect on her: “The man’s so all-consuming I lose the capacity to be the main character in my life every time he comes around.”

    4) It is full of wonderful, interesting, new information about the natural world.  How’s this passage, for an example, where Callahan tells nine year old Harry that seagulls “have specialized glands called nasal glands over their eyes, with ducts that lead to their nostrils.  When they get too much salt in their bodies, they produce nasal fluid to drain it out.  So sometimes, their noses run, and sometimes, they simply sneeze it out.” (more…)

    Oops50 Book Review: Saving Gracie by Jill Teitelman

    Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

    SHARON WILLEN

    We’re welcoming back guest blogger and fellow baby boomer, Sharon Willen, from What’s up This Time .  We hope to convince her to blog more often with Oops50 because she’s such a thoughtful reviewer of books, film, music, art, etc.  Here is her critique of Jill Teitelman’s new book called Saving Gracie.

    The story of Ruth Kooperman’s rocky journey from carefree East Village poet to last-minute mother to single suburban mom was a bit like peering into one of those fun-house mirrors at the county fair.  On so many pages I saw my own life reflected, just a bit warped or shifted off kilter.

    Ruth:  Jewish, almost forty, had intended to become a famous writer, but wound up teaching English and writing “poignant short stories” based on her series of calamitous relationships with men and being published in little magazines without fanfare.  She pursued a career while her friends one by one got married and had babies.

    Me:  Jewish, single till I was thirty five, used my degree in English to begin a career in publishing and writing which morphed into teaching middle school English and writing poetry and short stories that never saw the light of day and non-fiction texts, newsletters and public relations materials published for limited distribution in the business world.

    Saving Gracie

    We both lived lives that mimicked TV series, “Sex and the City” – chasing adventures in the Big Apple (and around the world) that were empty fun, but might become stories worth writing about.  We both viewed Motherhood as “a masochistic Olympic event others competed in for unimaginable reasons, like wrestling or the luge” until we both realized that “too much freedom was starting to feel as bad as not enough.”  Pushed into a corner by the menopause clock, we each came face to face with Ruth’s deepest, most important question, “Why did I jump on the Liberation train without asking where it would take me?” However, we answered it differently.

    I remember my own aghast and offended reaction when someone, a male friend, actually listened to me complain about the lack of quality men in my twenty-something social world and suggested seriously that I stop looking for a partner and start looking for a man who could be the father to my children.

    What? Put the kids’ needs before my own, before I even tied the knot?  No way.  Not ever.  When Ruth became obsessed with finding “the right man” to father the child she isn’t certain she wants but can’t stop thinking about – that’s where we parted company.

    As the balance of the novel unfolded, I liked Ruth less and less.  Her story went from mildly amusing to un-engaging. I found reading every niddling detail of her bad dates and impulsive behavior as uninteresting as re-reading the teen-age journals I unearthed cleaning out the basement this summer (“Went to Social Studies, nothing happened. Wish Mark S. would ask me to the prom. Wish anyone would ask me to the prom. Hope my SAT’s are high enough to get into a good college.”).

    Who cares?

    Ruth chooses the least objectionable man she comes in contact with, gets pregnant, does not get married, but manipulates her unwilling partner into a conflict-filled version of co-parenting, then abandons him for single-motherhood and gets into an ill-fated marriage with another “also ran” in the dating sweepstakes – staying ever devoted to her son, but simultaneously complaining about her lot in life at every turn of the page.

    I found her character to be believable, but annoying, if not offensive.  Ruth’s connection with Grace Stein at Cedar Grove Pre-school Parents’ Night, almost half-way through the book, was the turning point for me.

    Grace was a more traditional Jewish woman in a storybook marriage, a talented mother and beloved member of her Synagogue and the general community as well.  As they became fast friends, the character of Grace introduces an easy-going comic relief to the book that balances Ruth’s selfish whining and never-ending angst.  I cared about Grace when she lost her husband Max and kept reading to find out her fate and that of her two sons when she herself was diagnosed with terminal cancer.  Had it not been for Grace, I probably would have abandoned Ruth’s story.

    I’m not sure that’s what Jill Teitelman meant when she (or a clever editor?) chose the title, but for me, at least, this counterpoint character was the book’s only saving grace.

    Oops50: Do People Still Write Love Letters?

    Tuesday, November 27th, 2012

    Annice

    Over the holiday I was in NY and DC visiting family and spending time with grandchildren and nephews aged 6-14.  All of them, (except the six year old, he’s only playing games on the iPhone) are using the iPhone to text, telephone, play games, and take photos.  The kids, like their parents, were constantly looking at their phones in restaurants, the cinema, crossing the street, at breakfast, and basically everywhere.

    That scene was played out again at the Atlanta airport while I was having lunch waiting for a connection to Asheville.  I sat next to a mother and daughter who were constantly looking at their phones in between bites of burgers and fries and only occasionally did they look up to talk to one another.

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    After lunch, I headed to the waiting area to read my book – a real paperback book. Year of Wonders, by Geraldine Brooks, carried me back to a small English village ravaged by the Plague in 1666.  The contrast between the story of how people experienced one another back then, and how we experience each other now made think about love letters.  Are baby boomers the last generation to write love letters? D0 young people still write them?  Do they text them?  Don’t those texts vanish?  I wonder how people will document their life if it’s all digital?  In the clouds?

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    As for me, I have tons of real letters written on various textures and colors of stationary with stamps from foreign countries on the envelopes.  When I studied abroad in the 70’s and  80’s before computers and iPhones and Skype, I remember waiting anxiously for the mail every day hoping for letters from my parents, family and friends.  And, of course, nothing was sweeter than the love letters I carefully unfolded night after night as I re-read them for confirmation and comfort.

    Now, don’t get me wrong, I love my iPhone, but I love the act of sifting through my life looking and touching all the letters and photos.  So, I ask, do people still write Love Letters? And if they do, what’s the format?

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