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    Amazing Women over 50: SheVille of Western North Carolina: Part I

    Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

    Oops50 had the pleasure this week of interviewing two of the owners of SheVille of Western North Carolina: Jean Cassidy and Va Boyle.  SheVille is a wonderful, thoughtful and thought-provoking site that Jean and Va own with Lee Lehman, where they pull together “local, regional, national, and international” information that is “about women’s lives and education, sustainability and the environment, the arts and writing, community people and events.”  Although the site is tailored to “women of Western North Carolina,” and offers affordable advertising for any small business owner, there is something there of interest to all women (and many men), of all ages and locations.

    Jean Cassidy, Jane Hatley, and Va Boyle at the Chocolate Lounge

    Here’s Part I of the interview:

    Oops50:  Why did you all decide to build Sheville into the kind of site it is today, with all of its interesting articles and topics?

    Jean: Well, it’s never been a money thing.  I used to feel really lonely when I looked at women’s magazines, dealing with stuff like breast implants and liposuction—which have never been my reason for being.  I knew that women have marvelous intelligences, so I thought, ‘how can we not focus on this together?’  I wanted a place where we could join articles on sustainability with ones on women’s education, women’s businesses—things that make life deeper, much richer, things that are ‘life’s blood’ for women.

    Oops50:  So sustainability is a big part of your focus?

    Va: Yes!  And I have always been interested in conservation.  I grew up, after all,  in a household with a Victory Garden! (more…)

    Beautiful Women over 50: Peggy Sands!

    Friday, February 25th, 2011

    PEGGY SANDS

    Peggy Sands is not only a beautiful woman over 50, but she’s an artist that I like a lot.  And since I don’t like everything that I see these days that is called “art”, and I didn’t know that she did such beautiful paintings, I wanted to share her with you.

    She paints murals.  She paints with colors that make me squeal. Go to her website and buy some of her paintings.  Or have her make a mural for your bedroom or living room.  The world needs more art and more artists like her.

    WAITING FOR YOU IN MY GARDEN

    Just for fun, I asked her to answer 5 questions recently, and here is what she said:

    1. What was the name of the first record you ever bought?

    Rubber Soul: THE BEATLES

    THE BEATLES: RUBBER SOUL

    2. What is the one thing you have to put on or have on that makes you feel good about leaving the house?  And, what is your favorite perfume?

    It’s a bracelet I got for Christmas that makes me feel really special when I remember to wear it.  And Nina Ricci L’Air De Temps is my favorite perfume.

    REMEMBERING TUSCANY I

    ELAND PASSAGE

    BOYNTON CANYON

    3. What is your favorite comfort food?

    Almonds and raisins maybe?  No, wait, I can’t do comfort food – I’m on the diet from hell to try to revive my adrenals and thyroid.

    Oh, I know, oatmeal raisin cookies or Miso soup (Can you believe it? Miso? Comfort? So embarrassing!).

    4. Have you found the perfect bra?

    Yes! One from Victoria’s Secret, I got it years ago and I still like it a lot.

    5. What’s your favorite and least favorite thing about being over 50?

    I never ever think about it.  But, if I have to think about it, the least favorite I suppose is wrinkles and the body falling apart slowly but surely.  And the best is loving and accepting myself, and not beating myself up anymore, and becoming whole.

    IRIS A MURAL

    Nawal El Saadawi: Egyptian doctor and militant writer on Arab women’s struggles

    Monday, February 14th, 2011

    Annice

    I was first introduced to the writing of Nawal El Saadawi,  Egyptian doctor and  feminist, as early as 1980 when I was in college and reading all the feminist literature I could get my hands on.

    Nawal El Saadawi

    After reading one of her first books, The Hidden Face of Eve, Women in the Arab World,  I was captivated by El Saadawi’s disturbing account of religious and political oppression of women in her country as well as in the region.  It was through her writing that I first learned about female circumcision of young girls.  Living in exile for decades, she finally returned to Egypt.  I was thrilled to read an interview with her published Feb. 11th, in The Root.  We wish Dr. El Saadawi well on her journey for liberation in her homeland.

    Yes, She’s Had a Life: Part II

    Wednesday, January 26th, 2011

    guest writer Kathryn Wilson

    Following Kathryn’s story on Monday, we’re continuing with Part II of E., One Intrepid Senior

    E. worked as a model in post-war Manhattan for the Elizabeth Arden Salon and lived in the famous Barbizon Hotel in the mid 1940’s. This glamorous part of her life led her to meet Gloria Vanderbilt, Marlene Dietrich, and her first husband, D.      

    After marrying D. and living in New York and Cincinnati, E. returned to her hometown of Louisville after the death of D. to start Louisville’s first finishing school. Once the charm school was successful, E. moved on to pursue her true love—art.  She and two friends started Talents Unlimited, a company that sold art supplies, taught classes, and specialized in unique Christmas dioramas that E. designed and crafted.  These wreaths were hot ticket items, frequently requested and often selling for more than $300 a piece.  Each wreath was highly specialized, electric, and musical, and featured detailed Christmas scenes.  E. even had one of her more elaborate wreaths, modeled after the Kennedys’ last Christmas in the Blue Room, accepted by the Kennedy Memorial Library.  The wreaths have been showcased in museums and craft shows across the country, winning many awards.

    Eloise's wreath

    E. has traveled to many exotic locales, including Paris, Hong Kong, Haiti, and Thailand.  She has had many adventures abroad, including meeting Maria von Trapp and, in a separate instance, nearly being kidnapped.  E. and I spent an entire day viewing slides of these beautiful trips to near and far.  She will soon be leaving for her yearly sojourn to her condo in Highland Beach, where she will wait out the icy Kentucky winter in the peaceful warmth and light of Florida.

    In short, E. has had an amazing life, one worthy of transcribing and well-deserving of the title she’s chosen: Yes, I’ve Had a Life.  She is an admirable woman who has made the most of her life.  I have found myself inspired continuously throughout the process.  Yes, I hope my life will be just as exciting as E.’s, but I also hope to never forget the importance of each person’s life story.  I know now that these small anecdotes are always worth observing more closely, no matter how high the pile of surrounding souvenirs may be.

    Other Voices: A Personal Encounter with Elizabeth Edwards

    Thursday, December 30th, 2010

    This article comes to us from Nancy, who lives in Rocky Mount, NC and has been a guest contributor to Oops50 before.

    Photo Courtesy of AP

    I have a voicemail from Elizabeth Edwards saved on my home phone.  It joins five from my good friend Lolo.  I have room to get one long message or maybe two short ones before my mailbox is full, but I won’t delete any of those precious six.  I thought I was being punk’d when I first heard the message.  She identified herself and proceeded to recount how we had played softball together in the seventies and how I had come to her wedding–and even mentioned the present I had brought. I listened rather stunned by it all.  She ended by leaving her contact numbers and putting an old friend of mine, who was there with her, on the phone.  It was her voice and his voice, but, for the life of me, I had no memory of personally knowing her. Yes, I had played on a softball team, and, yes, I had a roommate who made handmade baskets, the gift I had brought.  But going to her wedding?  You’d think I would remember that.

    I had actually had two close encounters with Elizabeth Edwards over the years.  We rode on the same plane to Atlanta probably ten years ago, and about four years ago, as my daughter and I were leaving a basketball game at the Dean Dome, I reached out to touch my daughter’s hair, and this woman walking behind me commented on how beautiful it was.  I turned and recognized her and stumbled through something about how glad I was to hear that she was doing so well. She thanked me, and we continued walking.

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