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    Oops50: SadhviSez: This New Age is Funny

    Saturday, February 4th, 2012

    I know I am getting old.  Not being raised in the New Age, I am just part of the wave of people of my generation that would bring it in.  I remember when I stopped eating meat because I couldn’t handle eating something that was alive…and how I kind of felt like I was an outcast when trying to find a place to eat out.  I remember discovering miso, herbs, fresh ginger, spirulina, earth shoes and Birkenstocks.

    No one really ate out much.  Mostly everyone cooked their meals at home.  I bought my tofu and brown rice and organic veggies (that usually looked kind of wilted) at a funky health food store, not the posh Whole Foods-like stores of today.

    I’m not dwelling on the past!  I just want to share this clip of something that I found kind of funny…enjoy!

    Oops50: Farmer Nancy Shares a Pet Peeve

    Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

    NANCY

    I miss Andy Rooney, and, in tribute to him, I am going to air one of my pet peeves.  I’ve gotten so I read through the obituaries, partly for that feeling of having won a little lottery when I don’t see anyone’s name I know (so at this point, I still win a lot) and partly to read about strangers’ lives and marvel at the detail in some of them.  I have to admit that I also look to see mentions of a beloved pet left behind.  I do that with wedding announcements, too, and feel instantly connected when I see a pet in the picture with the happy couple.  I guess I should disclose that my dog “Pasha Bird” shared space with me in my college yearbook.

    But, back to obituaries!  Often I see a picture of a young person staring out at me, and I gasp to myself, thinking, “how sad,” but then, when reading on, I discover the person is actually way past 60.  It happened just today in the Chapel Hill News.

    Are we trying to say we are now forever young?  I don’t get it.  There was a flapper not long ago in the Raleigh paper, hair flattened down with tight curls, in a roaring twenties dress.  So, of course she was in her nineties.  Would any of our current acquaintances recognize us if we put our high school picture in our announcement?  Is it the families that do this?  Or do we, upon reaching a certain age, pick out our best shot from fifty years ago and designate it as our ‘parting’ shot?

    I can see that some people may just not have a more current picture, but in this digital day and age, I would think they would be in the minority.

    So, for heaven’s sake, anybody who doesn’t have a recent picture, please ask your grand kids to snap one of you, so we won’t have to move you through all three focal levels in our glasses to figure out even that we knew you!

    Now I’m going to look up Andy’s obit to see what his picture was like.  Here it is:

    ANDY ROONEY'S OBITUARY PHOTO

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Looking Back on Botswana

    Wednesday, January 25th, 2012

    JANE

    So, I’m back from Africa and settled back into my life (after considerable jet lag).  It’s hard now even to believe that just a week ago, I was driving around the wilds of Botswana in a safari vehicle, looking at rhinos and giraffes and elephants.  It all seems like a movie that I went to see, and now I’m out of the theater, dazed by the  bright outside light and realizing that I ate a little too much popcorn (or, in this case, one too many ‘fat cakes,’ a Botswana staple consisting of a big ball of friend dough dripping with grease).

    This trip to Africa made me feel both younger than usual and older.  I felt younger to realize that I still had the nerve to go exploring and camping in remote places, with my 2 girls and some camping equipment.  It also made me feel younger to try new foods, meet new people, and to see new things.  However, the trip also made me feel older, in that I had more anxiety about things than I had ever had in the past.  Part of this is probably due to the fact that it was Africa I was visiting and not Wales (where I ventured when I was 19 and traveling by myself for the first time).

    Part of my anxiety was also due, I’m sure,  to the fact that I didn’t have my husband with me—for the first time in about 28 years!  After all, Tom is always so on guard against every possible hazard to our kids that it makes it easy for me to relax and be laid back.

    But the biggest part was probably just due to the fact that I’m 58 years old and a little too aware of the bad things that can happen to good people.  While Becky was excited to see the very interesting lizard on the roof of our camping tent, I couldn’t help but imagine that lizard dropping down on us in the night to give us a fatal, poisonous bite.  While Becky and Josie both enjoyed steering the rental car through the sandy roads into Khama Rhino Sanctuary, I kept imagining us stuck in the sand on a backwoods trail, with no one to come and rescue us or bring us water.  It made me feel old to be conscious of every mosquito bite, fearing dengue fever or malaria.

    JANE ON SAFARI

    I have to admit it:  when our plane touched down in Philadelphia, and I knew, for the first time, that I had gotten at least one of my girls safely back on this side of the ocean, part of me breathed a huge sigh of relief.

    But then, I have to remember that there was also another part of me that was ready to pack up and go again.

    I guess there’s still some life in the old girl.

    Oops50: Sadhvi’s Apple Charlotka

    Friday, January 20th, 2012

    APPLES PILED HIGH

    After realizing that I only spent 3 minutes, 10 times a day on FB, I decided to try and see how many “real” hours a day I was spending on the computer.  It turns out I average around 5 hours.  By stopping FB, I had only managed to cut out 3.5 hours per week.  Hmmm.

    I thought it would be interesting to find out how I compared with my friends, and found out that working and retired people alike spend about the same amount of time, an average of 8.5 hours a day…reading books, watching YouTube, texting, answering emails, being in chat rooms, playing games, working…whatever.  Some were on for around 16 hours per day, while others were just on it an hour.

    I am not trying to turn back the hands of time here.  I do realize this is the norm now, this being on the computer for hours and hours and hours.  I just realized that being on the computer has replaced and surpassed the amount of time spent watching TV.  I went to get my eyes examined the other day, and my eye Dr. told me that I should get a pair of glasses that I use just for the computer, to avoid eye strain, which I do have.

    So since I can’t cut down much more, I can take breaks: baking, gardening, painting.

    Apple Charlotka

    Here’s a recipe from the Smitten site (one of the few food blogs that I like) that I have modified to make gluten-free.  I’ve also cut back the sugar a bit, and sprinkle some of it on top to get a bit of caramelized glaze on top.  You’ll see.  It’s easy, not too sweet, and very yummy. The original recipe calls for all-purpose flour, by the way, which of course you can use.

    Sadhvi’s Apple Charlotka

    Butter or nonstick spray, for greasing the pan

    • 6 large tart Apples, like a Granny Smith
    • 3 large Eggs
    • 1/2 cup Sugar
    • …and another 1/4 cup Sugar to sprinkle on top towards the end of the baking time in the oven
    • 1 t. Cinnamon
    • 1 teaspoon Vanilla extract
    • 1 cup of Pamela’s Baking & Pancake Mix (this replaces the flour, it is gluten-free, and, it tastes good!)

    Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

    Line the bottom of a 9-inch springform pan with parchment paper.

    Butter the paper and the sides of the pan.

    Peel, halve and core apples, then chop them into medium-sized chunks.

    Put the cut apples directly in the prepared pan.

    Meanwhile in a large bowl, using an electric mixer or whisk, and beat eggs with sugar until thick.

    Beat in vanilla, then add the cinnamon.

    Now stir in Pamela’s Baking & Pancake Mix with a spoon until just combined. (The batter will be very thick.)

    Pour batter over apples in pan, using a spoon or spatula to spread the batter so that it covers all exposed apples. (i.e. spread the batter and press it down into the apple pile. The top of the batter should end up level with the top of the apples.)

    Bake in preheated oven for 45 minutes or so.

    Then sprinkle that reserved 1/4 cup of sugar on top.

    Bake another 5 minutes or so.

    Now move the pan up a rack, and put on Broil.  (At this point, watch the cake to make sure it does not burn!)

    When done, cool in pan for 10 minutes on rack, then flip out onto another rack, peel off the parchment paper, and flip it back onto a serving platter.

    Eat plain, warm or at room temperature, with some whipped cream or sour cream on top to get fancy, if desired.

    Enjoy!

    It's Good!


    Sadhvi Sez: Good-bye FaceBook

    Friday, January 13th, 2012

    ME AND OUR DOG, BELLO

    I just deleted my FaceBook account, which oddly enough, was not so easy.  Actually my account will not really be deleted for another two weeks. FaceBook wants me to be sure, so that in case I change my mind and feel the urge to log in and see what any of my 597 “friends” are posting, then I will be “reactivated”.

    You might be wondering, what prompted this?

    Well, it’s been building up…this kind of feeling of wanting to pull the plug.

    For starters, I hate that there is no privacy any more on the web, and especially with having a FaceBook account.  Then I recently got my yahoo account hacked into, which ticked me off, wondering why would anyone want to do this kind of thing?  And then during the Holiday season, I kept seeing ads for places I visited on the web and especially while on FaceBook.  And then there are my friends with smart phones: the reception is not the best, so either I can’t hear them, or they can’t hear me very well, and often we are cut off and that is the end of that “cool”connection!   Misspelled smart phone emails are so common-place that I seriously wonder if anything matters anymore.

    Oh, and you and I can now be arrested without a warrant and put in jail indefinitely without a trial date.  This is to protect us from something…ummm, what was it again?  Oh yeah.  Terrorists.

    So for me there are many reasons.  And if something feels very overwhelming, bothersome and not much fun for very long, and if I’ve had one too many constitutional rights taken away in the last couple of years, something has got to change!

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    So no more cool ways to connect for me.  Goodbye to Linkedin, to Google+, to all the other ways of connecting that I never could get into: Twitter, texting, & yes, Pinterest too.  God I feel better just writing this!

    It’s time to spend less time on the computer, and more time with my dog and husband.  And doing things I love, like painting.

    I will continue to write for Oops50 every Friday, and will do so until I no longer enjoy it.

    I don’t have the boundless energy I once had, but I still have enough to draw and form boundaries of what is good for me and what isn’t.

    Thank you menopause for making this all possible.

    I think being a woman over 50 , a crone, an elder even, is going to be just fine.

    Oh, in case any of my FB friends want to contact me, my email is:

    SadhviSez@oops50.com

    Unmillo's Hibiscus

     

     

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