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    Archive for November, 2010


    Women over 50: What do you like and dislike about it?

    Friday, November 26th, 2010

    Sadhvi

    Well maybe I still can’t figure out what I like about being over 50, but here are some women who had no trouble saying what they like and dislike about it.  Take a moment to read what I find interesting about these beautiful women over 50…it’s good to know there are so many of us out there!

     
     
     
     
     

    Adele

     Adele, who turned 88 on November 24th said, “The best thing about being older is that I have the freedom to do anything I want, and at anytime.  For example if I want to play the piano at 11:00 at night I can and do because there is nobody who can say no!   

     And what I like least about being an older woman over 50?  Well, it’s a very small thing but when I wake up in the morning there’s nobody to say good morning to.  I miss that.  Especially since my dog Missy died in 2007″.  

       

    Annice

    Annice says, “What I like best about being a woman over 50 is the realization that I have so many choices in life and that “no” is a complete sentence – and it looks like this:  No.   What I like the least about being over 50 is realizing how short life really is and how fragile it is.”  

    Betty

    Betty says, “What I love about being over 50 is the fact that I like myself the way I am, regardless!   What I don’t like about being over 50 is the fact that four decades of varying levels of activism have not resulted in much of the change I want to see happen.”   

     

     

    Guitele

     

    Guitele says, “What I like best about being over 50 is my sense of self, feeling self-actualized, and what I I like least are the changes in my body.”

        

    Jane

     

    Jane says, “I like the fact that I no longer care what people think about me—at least most people!  And I like the fact that I no longer have to color my hair but can just be grey.  I also like being friends with women who have been through a lot, suffered a lot, but kept their positive outlook on life.  I like—and sometimes dislike– not being noticed by men.  It’s a lot less stressful, even though I can wax nostalgic about the old days at times.  Like Yvette, I like having grown children and getting to know them for themselves instead of as “my children.”  I like being married to Tom for 27 years now.      And what I dislike is having wrinkles on my face, but I’m trying to change my attitude about that.  After all, each of those wrinkles was well earned!  I don’t like the fact that many of the people who were very important to me in my childhood and youth –whom I would love for my children to know firsthand—are no longer walking on this earth.  I wish we could somehow get the generations all living together at the same time—but I’m hoping for a “meeting in the air!”     

      

    Dr. Judith King-Calnek

    Dr. Judith King-Calnek answers, “What I like best about being a woman over 50 is that I feel so comfortable in my own skin.  I feel like a mellow glass of red wine, it just feels good.  What I like least?  Ah, vanity!  I guess it’s those patches of gray hair (although I’m trying hard to embrace them because I think women with silver hair are beautiful), and that my face doesn’t have that tight skin that it once did”. 

    Priya

    Priya says, “What I like most about being a woman over 50 is that being a disciple of Osho I’ve always felt a sense of freedom, but now aging has afforded me an even greater sense of freedom from social mores.   And what I like least about being over 50 is that my attachment to the physical beauty of this earth is being tested in that I know I am going to have to let go of the physical plane sooner than later.”  

      

    Another Thanksgiving List from One of Our Readers!

    Wednesday, November 24th, 2010
    1. I’m thankful my husband is no longer having an affair.
    2. I’m thankful my daughter IS on drugs (anti-depressants).
    3. I’m thankful that my dog, Willard, peed in the house just once today.
    4. I’m thankful that my husband and I survived accidentally walking 6 miles the other day (we didn’t realize our destination was that far).
    5. I’m thankful for email so that I never have to have a conversation with my ex-husband again.
    6. I’m thankful that when my big toe toenail fell off it didn’t hurt, but it sure is ugly.
    7. I’m thankful that nobody at water aerobics has a rockin’ body.

          8.  I’m thankful that somebody at Duke invented Magic Mouthwash for the mysterious sores in my mouth.

    9.  I’m thankful that the latest stray dog we have hasn’t gone into heat yet.

    10.  I’m thankful that my collie who almost died this year is now healthy.

    11.  I’m thankful that Obama, bless his heart, is president, even though nobody else in the country seems to be.

    12.  I’m thankful for Lolo, my 85-year-old, extraordinary friend.

    13.  I’m thankful when the dogs sleep past 7 in the morning.

    What do women like and dislike with being over 50: Yvette?

    Monday, November 22nd, 2010

    Sadhvi

    Now that I am definitely over 50, I have been thinking and really trying to figure out what it is that I like, and honestly, I cannot think of anything yet.  

    And since I don’t want to be thought of as a whiner, I won’t just write about what I don’t like, so I will just take a bit more time until I can come up with BOTH answers, OK? 

    I thought it might be interesting to ask other women and Yvette just happens to be the first one, so I hope you enjoy what she has to say. 

    Yvette, what do you like the most about being over 50? 

    Yvette!

    I love seeing the maturation of my kids.  I’m really enjoying what feels to me like a return on the investment of energy and self spent on parenting.  I love seeing their characters, ideas and creativity begin to bloom into adulthood. 

    I’m so happy that they are such nice people.

    Yvette, what do you like least about being a woman over 50? 

    What I like least about being over 50 is learning the lessons of letting go.  It’s hard enough to let go of your children as they go off to college (luckily I still have one more at home for a few years…) and to let go of youthful beauty and shape, such as it ever was, and to let go of owning so much junk (I need to work on that but there’s time). 

    But there’s deeper letting go going on.  I have only recently let go of thinking that there are interests and talents not yet developed that realistically just won’t grow at this time of life (for instance, I don’t think I will ever be the conductor of a major orchestra).  It’s as if I can see the neural pruning happening right before my eyes!  It time to let go of so much and focus on what I am doing best.  It’s not that I’m inflexible or rigid in my path but rather that, well, for example in my younger days I was sure I could catch a  whole bucket full of ping pong balls tossed in my direction.  Now I know that focusing on and keeping my eye on one ping pong ball at least improves my chances of catching ONE instead of missing them all. 

    And in this hologram of existence I see that in the hard work of letting go I find a gift of the freedom of being let go which is both frightening and wonderful at the same time.

    My Thanksgiving List

    Friday, November 19th, 2010

    Jane

    As Thanksgiving approaches, I’ve been thinking of the things I have to be thankful for.  Sometimes it feels difficult to come up with a list, especially when times are hard, but writing them down helps.  Here’s ten of mine:

    1)  I’m thankful that our dog, Tater, didn’t eat a) my new shoes or b) the cord to my son’s computer that was hanging so seductively in front of his face.

    Tater

    2)  I’m thankful that I’m managing to keep my weight off, despite having eaten my definition of deliciousness, i.e. Coffee-Heathbar ice cream made by Ultimate Ice Cream, the other night.

    3)  It goes without saying:  I’m thankful for my children and my husband and my wonderful women friends (and the men friends, too) and our families, especially my great nieces (all 5 of them!).

    4)  I’m thankful for every night that I make it through the night without waking up once.

    5)  I’m thankful for Jon Stewart and Rachel Maddow.

    6)  I’m thankful for SKYPE, my favorite new toy.

    7)  I’m thankful that Otis Redding lived and recorded “I’ve Been Loving You Too Long.”

    8)  I’m thankful for Obama in the White House.

    9) I’m thankful for SPANX!

    W. H. Auden

    10) I’m thankful that my face, although wrinkled, does not look like W. H. Auden’s yet.

    Beautiful Women of All Ages: Team Ra-Ras Kick Breast Cancer

    Wednesday, November 17th, 2010

    The Philadelphia Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure, teaming up with over 130 NFL Alumni Philadelphia Chapter Cheerleaders and UnitedHealthcare of Pennsylvania, invite the world to help “Team Ra-Ras Kick Breast Cancer.” To encourage viewers to share the video with others and increase breast cancer awareness, UnitedHealthcare will donate ten cents ($.10) per view to The Philadelphia Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure up to a maximum donation of $100,000.  Check out the wonderful video at this link:http://www.komenphiladelphia.org/Video>

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